Cast the Circle. Upon you altar should be the candles and the pentacle surrounding your crystal. Light all the candles and say,

"This is for my [emotion]."

Visualize the pentacle glowing with a bright light that reflects your feelings. Send all your thoughts and the emotion you intend to charge the crystal with at the centre of that pentacle.When you pick the crystal up, it should feel warm. Hold it and kiss it three times, each time sending more emotion into it. Blow the candles out then pass the gem through the smoke and say,

"In passing this gem through the smoke it is completely charged with [emotion]."

Let no one handle it until you give it as a gift to whomever you wish to feel your emotion.